They are not on your side. They are not your friend. They are not trying to help you. They consider you a „civilian“ even though they are also. They do not consider you equal to them, you are part of the herd and they are above you and feel no obligation to you.
Making their life easy is not your job, making your life easy is their job although they will never admit that. Never, ever speak to them no matter what they say to you.
The rich lawyer up immediately and so should you.